Attachment Theory vs. Buddhist Attachment

So this is me beside my Professor's artwork at a show called "Inclusion." 
In one class, i began to think about the differences and similarities of Margaret Mahler's Attachment Theory and the role of attachment in Buddhism.  Any comments?

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